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Do you know your life is full of infinite possibilities?

Do you know your life is full of infinite possibilities?

 I believe my life is full of infinite possibilities. I believe my thoughts become things.

And, I believe that dreams do come true.  

Do you know what the best thing is? This can happen for you too.

The beginning

It started back in 2017. My second marriage had ended in disaster, and after 12 years living in New Zealand, I was back in Ireland. In winter. I had to buy a coat. I felt like a meercat, left/right, left/right. I didn’t know what to do or where to turn…. apart from left/right, left/right.

Six years earlier, I’d been a confident, capable woman, but I’d been turned into an anxious, forgetful mess by menopause, a stressful job, and an abusive husband. I had the life I believed I deserved because contrary to what people saw when they looked at me and my big smile, inside I was full of shame, guilt, and self-loathing.

At one point over the years in NZ, my husband told me a friend said I was boring and that, above all, pulled the rug out from under me. It sat at the back of my mind for years and I rarely saw her. No matter how much fun I was having I hovered above myself wondering if I was boring people.

Menopause turned me inside out. I never trusted myself again with work that required 100% accuracy.

By the time I got back to Ireland, I felt burned, and burned out, by my whole damn life.

And then, I had to start again, and I KNEW that just one job rejection would be enough to send me into a spiral of depression.

But underneath everything, I was still a problem-solver. Just because I didn’t have the confidence to look for a job didn’t mean I couldn’t work. I became a Virtual Assistant. I could work from home.

Me, the VA

The thing is, though, to be a successful VA, you must network, which seems like a normal thing to do, but I’m also an introvert (a boring introvert, remember). I’d rather stick pins in my eyes. I tried network groups, but I couldn’t articulate what I wanted to do, so they never worked for me.

Job boards were the answer. I blundered from one Upwork job to another – always terrified I’d make a mistake.

I was burning through my settlement, and I was petrified I’d have no money, and I wouldn’t be able to pay my rent, and I worried non-stop about my dog.

What would happen to him if I had to move back to my mother’s? Yeah, I could bring him, but Barney sleeps on my bed and owns the couch, and Ma would have a fit. I was more worried about him than myself.

Writing was the one thing I knew I was good at, but even then, my inner voice told me I wasn’t good enough to write for other people and expect them to pay me. So, I did what everyone who doesn’t DO does – I taught other writers and took on editing work.

I had counselling, which helped, and then I discovered the Law of Attraction and began studying how Like attracts Like. The more I studied and practice, the better my life got. Success in the work aspect still eluded me though.

Infinite Possibilities

I lurched through a couple of years until September 2020. I don’t even know how I found Mike Dooley and Infinite Possibilities, but suddenly he was there with a 21-day writing challenge. Unusually, for me, I turned up every day and did every piece of homework. By day 21, I was fierce in my determination to write for a living. Pared down to its most salient point, Infinite Possibilities is about how your thoughts affect your life and how you can control what you think.

I did a couple of online courses in copywriting and freelance writing, and then along came Mike Dooley again with his Change One Thing Adventure. By the time that was over, the Universe knew exactly what I wanted. And I knew that my thoughts had become things.

Within a week of that challenge ending, I got an email from the owner of a website called the Irish Road Trip. Would I be interested in writing a test piece for him? I was. I did. He replied. Would I be interested in being a Featured writer? I sure was.

Everything I do now concerns writing. I run a writer’s group. I write web content. I blog. And people are calling me to write for them.

And just in case you think that could happen to anyone, I also told the Universe I wanted to be loved and cherished just as I am, something that hadn’t ever been the case for me. I’m happy to report that I am very much loved and cherished now and I’m happier than I’ve ever been in my life. 😀

The lesson I learned in all of this is that as much as the Universe is all-knowing, if you’re not specific in what you want, you’re only confusing the hell out of it and nothing you do will make it work for you.

 

Barney, in the rescue centre before I adopted him

Live your dream life

I’m a Certified Trainer now for Infinite Possibilities, the Art of Living Your Dream Life,

and I’m looking for SIX  ‘guinea pigs’ in to train so I can get to the next step. Simply email me below and I’ll get right back to you. 

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And – the bit about me boring my friend? Turns out that was a big fat lie

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Quarantine – Why Henry VIII is Responsible for it

Quarantine – Why Henry VIII is Responsible for it

According to Einstein, the definition of insanity was continuing to do the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome. The same could be said for the use of quarantine and lockdown to combat COVID.

The Black Death

The earliest mention of the Plague in England was The Black Death in June 1348. Originating in Asia, it was spread along shipping routes by flea-infested rats. The first known case was a sailor who arrived in Weymouth from France, where the Plague had also taken hold. It quickly spread to London, and by the following summer, it enveloped the whole country. It then began to die down, and by December, it was gone.

The good news resulting from this particular Pandemic was the end of the 100 hundred years war. They just couldn’t get the staff.

Another pandemic hit the shores in 1361/62, and after that, it returned periodically during the 14th and 15th centuries. Sometimes in particular areas, and at other times it spread throughout the country, killing between 10 to 20 per cent of the population each time.

Henry VIII was a hypochondriac 

It seems that the population put up with the situation as it was until Henry VIII was in power. Other infections such as Sweating Sickness were added to the mix by the beginning of the 16th Century, and Henry became more and more obsessed with keeping the infection at bay.

Henry was not only terrified of Sweating Sickness but of all types of illness. His doctor had to examine him regularly and reassure him that he was in good health. When the Sweating Sickness showed up in his locality, he’d pack up whichever castle he was living in and hotfoot it to somewhere it hadn’t reached.

Moving from place to place was the only option for the wealthy, and they would often only move within a county

Sweating Sickness

In August 1517, Henry’s court became ravaged by this Sweating Sickness (its origins are still unclear). When 2 of the pages who slept in his bedroom died, Henry dismissed all the staff, bar a few essential workers. He also had a mortal fear of London, where the infection rate was soaring. Despite repeated calls from Parliament, he said he was quite happy where he was (in Abingdon) and would stay put.

When his mistress Anne Boleyn caught the dreaded disease, even his love for her couldn’t tempt him from self-isolation. He sent his doctor to look after her, and of course, she survived. I wonder if she regretted that later on?

Quarantine

St George’s Chapel at Windsor Castle was a favourite destination for pilgrims and Henry believed they were bringing the Plague with them. In an effort to make the castle infection-free, he wrote to St George’s College, instructing them to come up with a solution. And so, the first instance of quarantine as a means of containing a virus was implemented.

Once a house was quarantined, only one person was allowed out to shop for essentials. That person had to carry an upright white rod. This had to reach four feet above head height so that people could see the person and socially distance themselves. Another pole which was at least 8 feet long, had to be fastened to the side of their house. This pole had to have wisps of hay or straw attached to warn the community that the house was infected and keep their distance. These measures were to remain in place until 40 days after the patients were given the all-clear.

In the absence of any other solution, London followed suit but went a step further with the poles – the one to be carried was to be 10 feet at least. A bundle of hay or straw rather than a wisp was required for the household pole.

Easing of Restrictions

The businesspeople of London didn’t take kindly to quarantine, and the King’s Council allowed the annual Friar’s Fair to go ahead. We have no data on infection rates from that.

The Pandemic seemed to strike mostly at young men and the wealthy – might it have come from food shipped to the country and may have been infected by the same rats that caused the Plague?

Non-essential Travel

It made its way to Ireland (but not Scotland), where the Lord Chancellor of Ireland at the time, Hugh Inge, was one of its victims. However, the sickness didn’t make its presence felt as it had in England.

We come full circle

The wealthy continued to use mobility as their primary defence against the disease until it eventually died out in 1551, but quarantine remained and continues to remain, a tool used by the government in their response to pandemics.

‘take special regard and make diligent search amongst you from time to time that there be no resort, sojourning, nor lodging of any strange persons within any of your houses in our said college which shall come from London or any other place where any infection is.’

 The first ‘state’ quarantine measures in England (1517): St George’s College Archives, Windsor, IV.B.2

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Thoughts Become Things

Thoughts Become Things

 From Rhonda Bryne to Mike Dooley to Buddha, all espouse the fact that our thoughts become things.

When I first watched The Secret it didn’t seem so secret to me – I was already happy and even when I wasn’t, I found happiness in the things I loved doing, my writing, my garden, my dogs when they came along.

Fast forward a few years and I’d just left a second marriage. Once the initial period of mourning was over I felt happiness again but also fear that I would repeat the same mistakes.  The Universe led me to find Abraham Hicks and the Law of Attraction, and all at once, it was clear that being a positive person is not worth an iota, if in your heart you have beliefs that are negative towards yourself.

Recite the affirmations, do the meditations and visualisations but until you stop saying what you DON’T WANT you won’t get what you DO want. 

This was brought sharply home to me recently. I won’t go into detail because it’s not something terribly important, but there was something I didn’t want to happen. There was no reason to suspect it might but still, I thought about it negatively.

It happened. Of course it did. 

Thoughts become things 

Can you remember a time something like this happened in your life? Leave a comment below 🙂

No Graphic Design Experience? No problem. Canva to the rescue!

No Graphic Design Experience? No problem. Canva to the rescue!

 CANVA not only helps you create gorgeous graphics but you learn as you go by using the templates and learning the components of good design. 

I was never very good at putting graphics together. I ‘sort of’ knew what I wanted but every time I tried to put something together for a Facebook post or a book cover, I ended up with a graphic that looked homemade. You know what I mean, right? 

And then I found CANVA and all my excursions into Graphic Design World became fun and easy and best of all, my graphics looked professional. It’s free to use unless you need extra functionality but for most people, the free version will do.  I used these checklists for my learning curve and now I fly through creating designs for blog posts, social media and book covers. 

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32 Checklists for you to follow to create amazing graphics

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How To Blog a Book

How To Blog a Book

How to Blog a Book

What holds most would-be authors back from publishing? It’s not a lack of writing talent. It’s not a lack of knowledge. And it’s definitely not a lack of desire.

If you ask most people why they haven’t finished their book, they’ll tell you they don’t have time.

We’re all busy people. You have clients to serve, a business to run, a family to care for. Not only that, but you’re spending time writing, marketing on social media, managing your team…the list is nearly endless.

When would you have time to write an entire book?

You’ve Probably Already Written It

It’s true. If you have a blog, and you’ve been maintaining it for more than a few months, then you very likely have already written all the content your book needs. All that remains is to organise and give it a light edit.

If you don’t have a blog (why not?), or your blog is young, blogging your book is even easier, since you can plan your content around your book topic.

Here’s how it works.

Think of your blog categories as sections, and each blog post as a chapter. You can loosely organise your book by sorting all your blog posts by category, then listing them in logical order. Your book may only contain a single category, or it might contain several. The choice is yours.

Remove self-serving, time sensitive, curated, or other content that doesn’t fit into a book. Remove the calls to action. It won’t make sense to promote your services or products—or worse, affiliate offers—within a book.

 Why you must Edit

What you’re left with is a rough draft of a book. All that remains is a few passes with your editor who you will have engaged for:

  1. Flow: Books should follow a logical path from one chapter to the next, so you’ll likely have to add or edit the beginnings and endings of your posts.
  2. Spelling, grammar and punctuation: Don’t skip this part. In fact, get someone else to do it. It’s too difficult to spot our own mistakes, and book readers are less forgiving than blog readers.
  3. Content: Enlist the help of a few friends or colleagues who you trust to share their honest opinion with you. Ask them to read through and note any content that is confusing, or that could be explained in greater detail.

That’s it! Revise, and you’re ready to publish.

 

 Think no one will read a book that’s repurposed from your blog?

Think again. Bloggers have used this method to write books for years, and some of them are spectacularly successful. Darren Rowse of ProBlogger.net fame wrote and published his wildly popular blogging guide based entirely on content he’d already published on his blog. He found that even though the content was freely available, people bought the book because they wanted the convenience of having it organized for them in one document.

Even fiction writers have discovered the power of blogging a book. Andy Weir, the author of “The Martian,” first published his book one chapter at a time on a blog.

Don’t continue to let excuses hold you back from publishing your book. Use the content you’ve already written, or strategically plan your blog to turn it into a book, but either way, get publishing!

 

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